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May 4, 2012
Sorry... For What?
I keep seeing people apologize for things they didn't do, I don't understand why. My neighbors house was broken into one night while I was sleeping. Should I go apologize on behalf of the burglar? I think it would mean more if the burglar apologized. I think my apology would be meaningless if I am in no way responsible. Am I guilty by association because we are both Canadians, even though Canadian law does not condone burglary? Am I guilty because my tax dollars pay for police to protect and serve but they were to busy catching speeders and doughnuts? Am I at fault because I was sleeping at the time and knew nothing about what was going on and did nothing? Or am I guilty because my skin color matches the suspect? How can I take responsibility for something I did not do? If someone stole from me I would want that person to be caught, not some innocent third party. Now if some innocent third party wanted to help recoup my loses I wouldn't turn down free money but it wouldn't change how I feel about the perpetrator of the crime. Once upon a time a white, Canadian, female stole some money from me. If every white person, every Canadian, and every female would pay me money I would be rich but only one person can say sorry. I can only take responsibility for something that I am responsible for. Taking on someone else s guilt does not absolve me of mine and is meaningless to the one hurt.
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